Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Roald Dahl

What a fun book!  My children just ate it up.  Charlie Bucket’s golden ticket adventure is full of excitement that had my children begging for just one more chapter.  The character Charlie demonstrates is admirable.  There are many beautiful lessons interwoven throughout the book through the unique cast of characters.  One of my favorites is the lesson learned through the Oompa Loompa’s song about television.  It was a 1964 prophetic glimpse at the dangers of the screen.  Profound!

This book is great for all ages.  My children were 8 and 10 when we first read it, but it would have been suitable years ago.  We started with the Big Friendly Giant at least 3 years ago – and in hindsight, I would have flip-flopped them.

Gene Wilder’s 1971 Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory is a great accompaniment to the book.  You might want to check out the movie when you are done with the book! We have not watched the newer version yet.

You can find other family friendly movie recommendations on our Family Movie Night page.

The most important thing we've learned,
So far as children are concerned,
Is never, NEVER, NEVER let
Them near your television set —
Or better still, just don't install
The idiotic thing at all.
In almost every house we've been,
We've watched them gaping at the screen.
They loll and slop and lounge about,
And stare until their eyes pop out.
(Last week in someone's place we saw
A dozen eyeballs on the floor.)
They sit and stare and stare and sit
Until they're hypnotised by it,
Until they're absolutely drunk
With all that shocking ghastly junk.
Oh yes, we know it keeps them still,
They don't climb out the window sill,
They never fight or kick or punch,
They leave you free to cook the lunch
And wash the dishes in the sink —
But did you ever stop to think,
To wonder just exactly what
This does to your beloved tot?
IT ROTS THE SENSE IN THE HEAD!
IT KILLS IMAGINATION DEAD!
IT CLOGS AND CLUTTERS UP THE MIND!
IT MAKES A CHILD SO DULL AND BLIND
HE CAN NO LONGER UNDERSTAND
A FANTASY, A FAIRYLAND!
HIS BRAIN BECOMES AS SOFT AS CHEESE!
HIS POWERS OF THINKING RUST AND FREEZE!
HE CANNOT THINK — HE ONLY SEES!
'All right!' you'll cry. 'All right!' you'll say,
'But if we take the set away,
What shall we do to entertain
Our darling children? Please explain!'
We'll answer this by asking you,
'What used the darling ones to do?
'How used they keep themselves contented
Before this monster was invented?'
Have you forgotten? Don't you know?
We'll say it very loud and slow:
THEY… USED… TO… READ! They'd READ and READ,
AND READ and READ, and then proceed
To READ some more. Great Scott! Gadzooks!
One half their lives was reading books!
The nursery shelves held books galore!
Books cluttered up the nursery floor!
And in the bedroom, by the bed,
More books were waiting to be read!
Such wondrous, fine, fantastic tales
Of dragons, gypsies, queens, and whales
And treasure isles, and distant shores
Where smugglers rowed with muffled oars,
And pirates wearing purple pants,
And sailing ships and elephants,
And cannibals crouching 'round the pot,
Stirring away at something hot.
(It smells so good, what can it be?
Good gracious, it's Penelope.)
The younger ones had Beatrix Potter
With Mr. Tod, the dirty rotter,
And Squirrel Nutkin, Pigling Bland,
And Mrs. Tiggy-Winkle and-
Just How The Camel Got His Hump,
And How the Monkey Lost His Rump,
And Mr. Toad, and bless my soul,
There's Mr. Rat and Mr. Mole-
Oh, books, what books they used to know,
Those children living long ago!
So please, oh please, we beg, we pray,
Go throw your TV set away,
And in its place you can install
A lovely bookshelf on the wall.
Then fill the shelves with lots of books,
Ignoring all the dirty looks,
The screams and yells, the bites and kicks,
And children hitting you with sticks-
Fear not, because we promise you
That, in about a week or two
Of having nothing else to do,
They'll now begin to feel the need
Of having something to read.
And once they start — oh boy, oh boy!
You watch the slowly growing joy
That fills their hearts. They'll grow so keen
They'll wonder what they'd ever seen
In that ridiculous machine,
That nauseating, foul, unclean,
Repulsive television screen!
And later, each and every kid
Will love you more for what you did.

~ Roald Dahl, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

Arms Wide Open

August 17, 2021 – Tuesday

Arms Wide Open

It has been two weeks since our morning spent on the North Carolina coastline.  Since that time I have been pondering the invitation I received to focus on and capture the beauty in our days.  It feels as if the Lord has been blowing on the fire He kindled within me that morning, by reminding me of the beautiful lessons He provided when I was fully surrendered and dependent on the leading of His Spirit.

During our early years of homeschooling, I chose to heed the still small voice of Lord and surrendered my school plans to Him.  I laid down my desire to order store bought curriculum and I chose instead to simply trust God to guide us.  As I surrendered to the Lord, I was humbled by how He used me to teach His precious children, and I was amazed at the gifts He sent day after day.  You can read some of those stories in my Memoirs of a Preschool Teacher.  It was a beautiful season.  Our days were filled with nature exploration, creating beautiful art, and simply unwrapping each new gift as it was presented to us.  Our activities honored childhood and even more importantly, I believe they honored God.

It is amazing what God can do when give Him space in our lives!  Busy schedules and rigid curriculums leave little space in our days, and hinder our ability to discover the gifts and beauty waiting to be uncovered with each new sunrise.  What we think we are supposed to teach our children, often stands in the way of what we want to be teaching and even should be teaching.  The Lord will always meet us where we are.  We cannot limit God.  He has shown up in our homeschool when I am fully surrendered and when I am not, but full surrender has proven to be the most fruitful.

Many of us have our arms too full to receive the good gifts the Lord wants to give us.  We are holding all of our ideas, curriculum, books and activities, much like a woman carrying bags of groceries into her home.  Our arms are full of items that nourish our family.  There is nothing wrong with what we are holding, except for the fact that our arms are too full to receive anything more.  As we lay down all we are holding and stand empty handed, we are best positioned to receive the gifts the Lord longs to give us.  Mama, our plans are indeed good – but God’s plans are perfect.  He is willing.  Are we ready?  I can’t help but wonder what God could do with all of our time.  What if we stand with arms wide open – open to receive?  What if we shift our focus from our plans to our God?  What if we focus on beauty?!

Have you have ever been in a quiet room and suddenly become aware of the tick tock of the clock?  Once you have tuned in to the clock’s rhythmic sound, it becomes difficult not to hear it.  In fact, it becomes all you can hear. I became aware of the clock on my son’s wall one night when I was sleeping in his room with him.  The sound became so consuming that I eventually had to get out of bed, take it off the wall, and remove it from the room so I could go back to sleep.

What we focus on, we magnify.  A magnifying glass can bring the sun into focus with such intensity it can create a fire.  I have kindled many a fire with my focus – some beneficial and some harmful.  We must be cautious where we focus our attention - the smallest spark can set a whole prairie ablaze. Whatever we want to magnify in our schools, our homes, our lives… that is where we must focus.    Our primary focus should always be on the Lord.  As we align our focus with the Lord, everything else falls into place.  The Bible tells us we can magnify the Lord with thanksgiving (Ps 69:30).  Oh the power gratitude!   If I am longing to magnify beauty, I must first focus on beauty.

I will praise the name of God with song and magnify Him with thanksgiving. (Ps 69:30, AMP)

In Malachi 3:10, God invites His people to bring the full tithe into the storehouse and test if He will not open the windows of heaven and pour out an abundance of blessing!  What would happen if we gave a minimum of 10% of our homeschool to the Lord?  What could He do with it?  Do we really need the next best curriculum or do we simply need God?  There is nothing wrong with using curriculum as a guide, but not at the cost of crowding out the freedom of the Spirit of the Lord to move within our homes.   10% is a good start!  Full surrender is where the magic happens.  We can trust the Lord with our children and their education!  This my friends is the path less traveled!  This is the path that makes all the difference! 

Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. And thereby put me to the test, says the Lord of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you a blessing until there is no more need. (Mal 3:10, ESV)

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I – I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.  ~ Robert Frost, The Road Not Taken

Each of us in a masterpiece created by the very hands of God, designed with a purpose to do the good works which God prepared in advance for us to do (Eph 2:10).  Who better than our Creator to guide us and our children on our journey to discover who we are created to be.  Yes – I did say us and our children.  It is through homeschooling that we also discover our divine purpose.  God knows our resources, limitations, gifts, talents and interests better than anyone.  No curriculum or school could ever gather together each of these details more masterfully or efficiently than He who created it all.

For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. (Eph 2:10, NLT)

Does this mean I can’t use any curriculum at all?  I don’t think so.  What I believe it means is that I need to hold each resource loosely and be flexible to lay it down when needed.  As we journey with the Lord, He will give us the tools we need.  There will be days he invites us to simply sit and rest at the well – to drink until we are satisfied.  We must be willing to become women at the well!

Below are the lyrics to a song I wrote when we were preparing to leave our home in Colorado almost two years ago.  These lyrics are as appropriate today as they were then.  I am beginning to realize that having my arms wide open is a lifelong posture I should strive for.

 

 

I stand here with arms wide open.
I stand here holding on to nothing.
I stand here with arms wide open.
Open to receive.

I let go when you say let go.
I hold on when you tell me to.
Holding on to your promises,
means letting go.

So with arms wide open, I stand.

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What if I do focus on beauty and capture our days?  What if I fully surrender to the Lord like I did when my children were small?  What could he do with all that time?

 

I have included a couple of journal posts from 2016 when I was searching for courage to fully rely on the Lord as our Headmaster and surrendering my desire for store bought curriculum.  I am sharing those with you today in hopes that they inspire you.

July 26, 2016 (journal entry):
I feel like I could stay here safely in the boat, order a kindergarten curriculum, and school would be great.  It would be laid out, easy to implement and high quality.  It would also be expensive.  And most importantly it would limit my free time to allow the Sprit to lead me. I don't feel like I am being called to float in the boat.  I feel Him calling me out on the water.  I feel Him saying to just try no curriculum for kindergarten.  Give it a chance.  Just one year.  Yet, I struggle.  There are so many curriculum choices that look amazing, yet I am torn because in my heart I know play based learning is best.  Lord, help me to not conform to the patterns of this world.  As I step out of the safety of my boat Lord, help me keep my eyes on you, lest I sink.  Give me wisdom that surpasses what I can comprehend today.  I lay my life on the altar, I lay our school on the altar.  They are yours Lord.  Today I commit to embracing play based learning for preschool and kindergarten.  Guide me Lord. ‘Take me deeper where my trust is without borders, let me walk upon the waters wherever you may lead’ (Oceans, Hillsong).

August 24, 2016 (journal entry):
Last winter I felt the Lord leading me to not buy ANY curriculum this year, and to trust Him.  What?! But I WANT IT! I dream of Whistlefritz for Spanish, All About Reading, Math U See, My Father's World, Sonlight...  $1500 later I would be buried in curriculum, driven by our schedule, and pressured to perform because of the price, and because of my love for finishing what I start.  But instead, I sit here this morning and I don't have a curriculum. I don't have a plan. I don't have a schedule.  What I do have is an abundance of idle time to simply follow the Lord as He leads us. Give me wisdom to know where to go from here.  Speak to me not only in the early morning hours, but during our studies. Give me the right words, ideas, and wisdom.  Lord - to you I want all the glory.  Use me to accomplish your will.

Nature, The Most Inviting Classroom

August 3, 2021 – Tuesday

Nature – The Most Inviting Classroom

Today we were blessed to spend the morning on the North Carolina coastline!  We are here visiting my best friend from college and her family for a long overdue visit.  The last time I saw her daughter she was learning talk, now she is learning to drive.  Thankfully best friends are not limited by time or distance.  We are meeting them at their lake house in a couple of days.  But first the beach!  I couldn’t be this close to the ocean and not at least dip my toes in.  Living in the Midwest, my love for waves is feebly satisfied by the prairie grass that ripples in the wind.   The prairie is majestic in its own right, but is no substitute for the ocean.

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To maximize our time, we woke before the sun, brewed a pot of coffee, packed breakfast and lunch and loaded the kids in the car to see what adventures awaited us.  The waves were big, so we spent most our time in search of hidden treasures along the shoreline.  Nary a moment is wasted if spent beachcombing.

Each beach presents its own unique treasures.  I have explored the tide pools of southern California, and have been overwhelmed by San Diego's treasure chest of sand dollars.  I have enjoyed the white sand beaches of Tampa with my parents and my babies more times than I can count.  I have walked along the shore with sting rays on a rainy day in Florida, and have snorkeled the warm waters of Kauai with sea turtles.   In La Joya, I reveled in the majesty of the sunbathing sea lions on the shore.   Today...  I am equally in awe of the beach and its treasury of magical encounters.   Today... there were endless tiny black sharks teeth adorning the shores.  Our only limitation to our collection is patience and time.

 

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Once our quota for shark’s teeth was satisfied, we took to digging in the sand.  My youngest would dig and dig only to watch his efforts continuously fill with water from below.   It was a striking difference from the familiar Colorado Rocky Mountains and Midwest clay.   As he dug, I gently grasped on to the opportunity before me to talk about sea level.  We reminisced about our hike above tree line years ago, a stark 10,000 ft. comparison to our current digging elevation.  Geography is so much more riveting when experienced in person.  Nature is God’s classroom!  I have never been disappointed by the lessons gleaned from simply being outside and observing creation.  We didn’t set out to learn about sharks teeth and elevation today… it just happened!  God’s creation is the most inviting classroom.

Later that morning I spent some time nestled in the shelter of my Shibumi beach shade with a kindred spirit, as I read Karen Andreola’s Pocketful of Pinecones: Nature Study with the Gentle Art of Learning: A Story for Mother Culture. Despite my love for nature study, I have learned over that years that it takes intentional effort to prioritize, and can easily get crowded out by more “academic” subjects if we are not careful.  I long to focus on the subjects that bring delight and beauty into our days, like music, art, literature, foreign language and nature study, and Karen’s book was encouraging me to do just that.

 

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Like a tender hug in the warmth of the salty wind, I felt a nudge from the Lord to keep a journal much like the one I am reading.   A nudge to simply capture the delight and beauty in our homeschool days, like lightening bugs in a mason jar – and let them shine.  In order to capture beauty, we must first focus on it.  In that moment a fire was kindled within me to focus on beauty, capture it, and to let it shine!

“Look! An Osprey!”  Suddenly, my thoughts were derailed by my ten year old daughters sighting of an Osprey.  She watched this magnificent bird dive into the ocean and catch its breakfast in its talons.  This is the same little girl who at age three was captivated by owls, and hasn’t relented in her study of birds of prey since.  My once budding owl lover is now an educated raptor enthusiast.  The osprey provided a clear and timely reminder that nature is indeed one of our children’s greatest teachers!

Charlotte Mason knew well the benefits of being outdoors in nature, and she encouraged us to instill a love for nature in our children.  We do that best by simply giving our children adequate idle time outdoors with the Lord in His creation.

Sharks teeth.  Check.
Altitude and elevation. Check.
Birds of prey. Check.

Our magnificent Teacher must be so excited to show us His beautiful creation today!

“A love of Nature, implanted so early that it will seem to them hereafter to have been born in them, will enrich their lives with pure interests, absorbing pursuits, health, and good humour” (Vol. 1, p. 71).

I am not sure what this journey will look like, all I know is that I have been invited (yet again) by the Lord to do something bigger than I am capable of in my own strength.  The simplest path is the well-traveled path.  A path I seem to becoming a stranger to.  I am grateful for the Lord’s guidance down the path less traveled.

God Equips the Called

God equips the called

Love is what equips us as mothers and teachers.  God is love.  Because we are created in His image, we are designed to love and care for our children deeply – just as God loves us.  His love is all encompassing. He is our teacher, counselor, friend, comforter, and protector.  Therefore, we are born teachers, counselors, friends, comforters, and protectors.  It’s who we are.  Thankfully, He holds our hand and guides us as we rise to this seemingly insurmountable task.  The key to our success?  Faith, hope and love.  The greatest is love.

As new parents, we rarely feel equipped for what we are called to do.  We are like student drivers, having to calculate every next step carefully.  Before long, our daily tasks become reminiscent of driving in a state of highway hypnosis.  We are on a type of autopilot.  Feeding and diapering become automatic.  We no longer find ourselves fumbling with our nursing cover or the snaps on our cloth diapers.  We learn by simply doing the next thing.  Somedays, we arrive at bedtime not sure how we just got there... but we got there.  What we accomplished from sun up to sun down would have seemed insurmountable if we had mapped it out in advance.  Yet, we do it one step at a time.  In simply doing the next thing, we gradually and naturally advance in our abilities.

We become teachers the day we become parents.

Teaching our children is part of our divine calling.  We encourage our babies when they attempt to roll over, celebrate their tiny victories as they begin to crawl, and hold their hands as they take wobbly first steps.  We read countless books with them snuggled on our laps, and listen in amazement as they "read" to us an entire book they memorized.  We teach them to catch, throw, run, swim, dance, sing and paint.  In turn, they challenge us to grow and stretch in ways we never knew we needed.  We become stronger and more equipped.  We don't have to strive to get there, it just happens.

When my children were three and one, the Lord started to minister to my heart about my role as their teacher.  It was then that I began to contemplate the traditional path of school.  Would I really send my oldest off to school in a year or two?  Something within me was longing to keep her home a little longer.  During this time the Lord presented me with An Invitation to Homeschool.   "Two roads diverged in the wood and I - I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference."  As I embarked upon this "new" path, it was then that I realized it wasn't new at all - it was simply a continuation.   The road I didn't take was actually the unfamiliar path of turning their teaching over to someone else.  In hindsight, I believe our homeschool was birthed, alongside our first child, in the delivery room.

Two roads diverged in a wood and I - I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. ~ Robert Frost

If I allow myself to gaze too far into the future and worry about tomorrow... I begin to feel overwhelmed.  In Matthew 6:34, Jesus tells us to not worry about tomorrow, but to deal with each challenge as it comes, one day at a time - tomorrow will take care of itself’.   It is imperative that we learn to focus on today, and trust in the One who holds tomorrow.  The key to our success is found in the preceding verse "above all, constantly seek God's kingdom and his righteousness, then all these less important things will be given to you abundantly." In homeschool, as in life, we do not know what tomorrow will bring (Prov 27:1), but we can trust in the One who does. When we seek first His kingdom and His righteous, all that we need will be given to us in abundance (Matt 6: 33, Phil 4:19).  He is more than enough!

 33 “So above all, constantly seek God’s kingdom and his righteousness, then all these less important things will be given to you abundantly. 34 Refuse to worry about tomorrow, but deal with each challenge that comes your way, one day at a time. Tomorrow will take care of itself.” (Matt 6:34, TPT)

Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring. (Prov 27:1, AMP)

And my God will liberally supply (fill until full) your every need according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. (Phil 4:19, AMP)

During the early years of school I longed to hear the Lord's heart on teaching.   I sat with Him for countless hours, listening and praying.  It was during this time that I appointed Him as Headmaster of our school and committed to allowing Him to guide me in teaching my children.  The Creator of reading, writing and arithmetic is the one I desire at the helm. He knows us best.  He knows our resources, limitations, gifts, talents and interests better than anyone.  No curriculum or school could ever gather together each of these details more masterfully or efficiently than He who created it all.  Each of us is a masterpiece created to do the good works which God prepared in advance for us to do (Eph 2:10).  It is my desire is to rely on the Lord as a lamp to our feet and a light to our path (Ps 119:109).  He is the one most qualified to teach our children.  My desire is for Him to be at the center of all we do and learn.

For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. (Eph 2:10, NLT)

Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. (Ps 119:105, KJV)

I always wanted to teach kindergarten, and was even an elementary education major for a short time in college.  My path ended up leading me a different way and I graduated with a Master's degree in Human Nutrition and Food Science.  I never regretted my decision to study nutrition, and simply thought that my dream to teach kindergarten was one that I would have to let go of.  Much to my delight, both of my children have since journeyed through through kindergarten with me as their teacher!   God doesn't always answer our prayers or dreams the way we think - He always does it better!  I didn't have a degree in elementary education... but I did have a Headmaster who was walking along side of me on my journey.  I was more than equipped!

Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. (Ps 37:4, NLT)

 

Memoirs of a Preschool Teacher

“‘What day is it?’ asked Pooh.  ‘It’s today,’ squeaked Piglet. ‘My favorite day’ said Pooh.” This quote by A.A. Milne was one of my favorites when my children were small.  Oh how I cherished each and every day!  I still do.

Early on in our journey of homeschooling, there was something that struck me so powerfully.  God wanted to be the Headmaster of our school.  Headmaster is a British term used to define (especially in private schools) the man in charge of a school; the principal.  It was during those early years that I appointed Him Headmaster, and trusted Him to provide all we needed.  He showed up in the most incredible ways.   Through the resources He provided, the people He placed on my path, and the wisdom He gave me – I was being equipped to fulfill my calling as my children’s teacher.   The lessons the Lord taught us during those early homeschool days made an indelible mark on my heart.  The greatest lessons have been those that were discovered, created, inspired and lived.  We would get caught up in a topic and study it until we were done – yet never really put it away.  It was like stopping to dig a well on our journey and fully quenching our thirst.

Liquids and Solids

It was an early March morning, one I remember so vividly.  We spent the morning gathered around the breakfast table reading the Bible, memorizing scripture and skimming the surface of liquids and solids.  Once the wiggles set in, I knew it was time to head outdoors.  I gathered up my then two and three year old, and we set off on an adventure.  We had two ponds behind our house.  As we approached the first one, we noticed its edges were just beginning to reveal the effects of the Rocky Mountain spring thaw.  The frozen center held tight to the anticipation of the inevitable spring just around the corner.  We explored craw daddies along the shoreline, tossed rocks onto the frozen center to determine the weight it would take to break, and watched the Canadian Geese land and skate across the ice like skilled figure skaters.  The example of the solid pond slowly returning to its liquid state was a beautiful demonstration of our ability to learn science through nature study.  I was content with the day’s lesson and decided we would continue to keep monitoring the pond until it fully thawed.

From there we continued our journey up and over the hill to the second pond.  As we climbed the hill and the pond came into view, what we saw totally stunned us.  The pond was completely thawed!  The lesson was obvious, our Creator was now clearly going to give us an example of a liquid!  The Geese reveled in the magic of spring as they floated on top of the water.  We wondered if their feathered friends over on the ice knew that spring was literally just around the corner.  Not all lessons are quite so indelible, extravagant or obvious.  Sometimes our Headmaster really outdoes Himself!  No teacher on the planet can teach solids and liquids like their Creator.  All I did was show up!  I couldn’t understand why these two ponds would be so different when they were less than 100 yards apart… What I did understand that day was that we have a Headmaster who loves us and cares about our education.

Owls

There were other lessons of equal grandeur that year.  One such example began midsummer with a three year old little girl’s fascination with owls and a trip to the library. We read book after book on owls.  I was learning the meaning of a Unit Study and my daughter was my teacher.  Our house at the time had a forest of pine trees.  We knew there must be owls in the trees – we just needed find them.  Our books taught us how to watch for evidence of owls.  As instructed, we listened for hooting after dark, searched the ground below the trees for whitewash (an owls chalky white excrement below their roosting place) and owl pellets (the regurgitation of the hair and bones of their prey).  One day when the kids were outside swinging we found our first owl pellet!!   Days later we dissected it to examine the inner contents.  Inside we found the tiny bones of last night’s dinner – most likely a mouse based on the long yellow teeth.  Nature study is proving to be so fun!  We are now even more determined to find our owl.

Months later on a cold Colorado January night, our patience, perseverance and faithfulness were rewarded, as hooting lured us outdoors.  The synchronization of the moonlight and leafless trees, made the invisible – visible.  A season of barrenness revealed the bounty that was always within – a great horned owl!  Majestic, awe inspiring and mysterious – this beautiful creature had us captivated.  The condensation that once formed a cloud as we exhaled, ceased as we held our breath in anticipation.  Moments later a distant mate answered the call, and a harmonious courtship ensued.  We stood their shivering only to be released from our trance as the owl silently took flight and disappeared into the dark.

From that night forward, we became increasingly proficient at spotting our resident owls.  We would begin to anticipate their hooting courtship each January.  Yet, their babies remained unseen.  The evergreens do not reveal their contents in the winter as do their deciduous counterparts.  Patience, perseverance and faithfulness were once again rewarded, this time in the final hours.  Fast forward five years.  All of our belongings have been packed into boxes, as we anticipated a move to the Midwest.  We went outside to soak up all we could of springtime in the Rockies.  As the children ran with their oldest sister under the pine trees, they discovered a tiny, white, down feather… and then another.  Much like the owl pellets that drew our attention to the trees years ago, the white down seemed to be an invitation to look up.  Not far from the scattered down, high up in the evergreens, they discovered two fuzzy white owl babies!  It felt like the grand finale to a five year study!  God is so good and He always finishes what He starts.   Was our curiosity quenched with the satisfaction of a completed lesson? Hardly!  It had simply ignited an unquenchable fire that will last a lifetime.

“The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled”.   ~ Plutarch

 God our Teacher

Through our lessons, we learned not only about God’s magnificent creation, but we learned about our Creator Himself.   His lessons are a mere reflection of who He is.  His provision and promises in our life are sometimes instant and apparent – like our liquids and solids lesson, while others require patient endurance – like our owls.  No matter how God shows up… He always shows up and teaches us just what we need for the season we are in.

And not only this, but we also celebrate in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope; and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. (Rom 5:3-5, NASB).

Teaching preschool and kindergarten at home was the journey that made me realize this was not only something I was feeling called to do, but something the Lord was qualifying me to do.  I never felt responsible for the successes I celebrated along the way; I always knew it was our Headmaster who faithfully walked by my side and showed up day, after day, after day.  He was the partner I wanted to continue on this journey with.  I was qualified for my calling because of His strength – a strength made perfect in my weakness.

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. (2 Cor 12:9, ESV)

In sharing these stories, my hope is to light an unquenchable fire in your pursuit for God as the Headmaster of your homeschool.  Your stories will not look like mine. They will be even better because they will be YOURS!  God is such an amazing teacher and Headmaster.  I am in complete awe of His goodness and His heart for homeschool!!  Though it was only preschool – we had become homeschoolers and were all in!  I was and still am 100% invested in this journey.

I feel blessed to say that TODAY is still my FAVORITE day!

 

 

 

 

Kale Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

Kale Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

A delicious and simple dressing that will have people asking for more. My children rave about this dressing. It balances out nicely when combined with something sweet like dried cranberries or apples.

Vinaigrette

  • 1/3 cup olive oil
  • 1/4 cup fresh lemon juice
  • 1 clove garlic, minced
  • 2 tsp dijon mustard
  • 1/2 tsp salt
  • 1/8 tsp pepper

Salad

  • Kale, stems removed and chopped very small
  • Diced apples
  • Dried Cranberries
  • Sunflower Seeds
  • Feta Cheese

Mix vinaigrette ingredients together and serve over prepared salad.

Note: Keep dressing refrigerated and discard if left at room temperature for more than two hours (see notes below regarding food safety).

This recipe was inspired by my amazing friend Gilberto, the chef I used to work with in Aspen.  He is gifted beyond measure in so many ways – and his creativity with food is unmatched.  I couldn’t find his original recipe so I searched the internet to find something similar, and found this recipe compliments of The Delicious House.  It was a close match and absolutely delicious.  

 

Food safety 101 regarding garlic and oil.  It is important to note that when garlic is immersed in olive oil it creates an oxygen free environment, that when left unrefrigerated can promote the growth of clostridium botulinum bacteria.  This bacteria cannot be detected by taste or smell.  Botulism in a potentially fatal food borne illness.  “To reduce this risk of botulism, the garlic in oil mixture should be refrigerated and used within two to three days. Garlic-in-oil should always be discarded after two hours at room temperature, even if salt and acids are present. Commercially prepared oils have added acids and other chemicals to eliminate the risk of botulism, but still must be handled carefully and correctly.” (Michigan State University)

Greek Dressing

 

Greek Dressing

Michelle Underwood
This dressing is quick and easy to make. My children love it and request it over ranch most days. It is delicious with Greek Salad, but we use it on a variety of salad creations. My goal is limit store bought dressings, they are expensive with a lot of unnecessary ingredients. Besides - homemade always tastes better!
Servings 1 cup

Ingredients
  

  • 1/2 cup olive oil
  • 1/2 cup red wine vinegar
  • 1 tsp garlic powder
  • 1 tsp onion powder
  • 1 tsp dried basil
  • 1 tsp dried oregano
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 tsp pepper
  • 1 tsp dijon

Instructions
 

  • Place all ingredients together in a ball jar. with a lid and shake well. Enjoy

Notes

If you want to make a simple Greek Salad to go with this dressing, simply gather the following ingredients:
Lettuce, peppers, cucumber, red onion, Kalamata olives, pepperoncini peppers and feta cheese. 
We usually top our salad with sliced grilled chicken to make it a meal.  You can also skip the chicken and have a quick, simple and healthy side dish.    
Bon appetite! 

Refried Beans (Frijoles Refritos)

 

Refried Beans (Frijoles Refritos)

Michelle Underwood
I grew up on the border of Mexico, so pinto beans and I have a long history together. We make a huge batch of refried beans, eat some and freeze the rest in pint size ball jars. My children LOVE them, and I love that they are good for them. Pinto beans are a naturally very high in antioxidants, vitamins and minerals. The added grass fed butter in this recipe makes them even more nutritious.
Servings 12 1/2 cup servings

Equipment

  • instant pot (optional)
  • Food Processor

Ingredients
  

  • 6 cups cooked pinto beans
  • 4 tbsp butter grass fed

Instructions
 

  • See recipe for Pinto Beans (link below)
  • Remove cooked pinto beans from cooking liquid (reserving at least 2 cups). Place beans in the food processor with 1 cup of cooking liquid and process until smooth. If you have a small food processor, you may have to do this in two batches. If they are too thick, gradually add more liquid.
  • Heat a large skillet over medium heat on the stovetop. Add butter. Once butter is melted, add beans. Whisk together. Cook over medium-low heat for about 5-10 minutes, stirring frequently. At this point I add about 1 more cup of the reserved cooking liquid to thin the beans to desired consistency.
  • Serve immediately or freeze in pint size ball jars.

Notes

Pinto Beans recipe
Refried beans are traditionally made with lard.  This recipe calls for grass fed butter.  Grass fed butter has many health benefits including being high in omega-3 fatty acids, vitamins, minerals and conjugated linoleic acid.   Along with the benefits of the grass fed butter, pinto beans are a very nutritious choice on their own.

Mile High Lemon Pie

I love lemon meringue pie.  It is like eating spoonful’s of joy .  The poet Edgar Guest seems to share my affinity in his 1917 poem titled Lemon Pie.  Allow me to share it with you as you savor the beauty found in this pie through this authors poetical painting. I could only hope my lemon pie could have this affect on my children’s little troubles.   I’d like to think it does.  There is just something so special about sharing homemade pie with those you love.

Lemon Pie
by: Edgar Guest

The world is full of gladness,
There are joys of many kinds,
There’s a cure for every sadness,
That each troubled mortal finds.
And my little cares grow lighter
And I cease to fret and sigh,
And my eyes with joy grow brighter
When she makes a lemon pie.

When the bronze is on the filling
That’s one mass of shining gold,
And its molten joy is spilling
On the plate, my heart grows bold
And the kids and I in chorus
Raise one glad exultant cry
And we cheer the treat before us
Which is mother’s lemon pie.

Then the little troubles vanish,
And the sorrows disappear,
Then we find the grit to banish
All the cares that hovered near,
And we smack our lips in pleasure
O’er a joy no coin can buy,
And we down the golden treasure
Which is known as lemon pie.

Mile High Lemon Pie

This pie has became a family favorite at the first glimpse of spring. It takes like spring and releases a joy that gets us through the final weeks of winter. Lemon Pie reminds me spring time in the Rockies with its mile high meringue and beautiful golden peaks.
Course Dessert
Servings 8 people

Equipment

  • deep dish pie pan

Ingredients
  

  • 1 each pie crust see notes for a link to my favorite homemade crust. You can use store bought if desired.

For the lemon filling

  • 1.5 cups sugar
  • 3 tbsp flour
  • 6 tbsp cornstarch
  • 1/4 tsp salt
  • 2 cups milk
  • 3 lemons zest use lemons for juice as well
  • 1/2 cup lemon juice, fresh squeezed
  • 3 tbsp butter
  • 6 each egg yolks reserve whites for meringue

For the meringue

  • 3/4 cup water
  • 3 tbsp sugar
  • 1 tbsp cornstarch
  • 6 each egg whites
  • 1/4 tsp cream of tarter
  • 1 pinch salt generous
  • 1 tsp vanilla
  • 1/2 cup sugar

Instructions
 

  • Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Prepare the crust

  • Place pie crust in deep dish pie pan. Pierce bottom of unbaked pie crust with tines of a fork to prevent crust from bubbling up. Bake pie crust until golden, approximately 25 minutes.
    Decrease oven to 325 degrees (this is for the final step of browning the meringue on your finished pie).

Prepare the lemon filling

  • Separate your eggs:
    Separate egg whites from egg yolks, placing yolks in a medium sized bowl and whites in a small dish to be used during preparation of the meringue. Be very careful not to get any yolk in your whites in the separation process or it will impact your meringue. The whites work best at room temperature, so leave them on the counter as you prepare the lemon filling.
  • Prepare the lemon/cornstarch mixture:
    In a medium saucepan, add 1.5 cups of sugar, flour, cornstarch and salt. Stir in milk, lemon juice and lemon zest until well mixed. Cook over medium high heat until mixture comes to a boil, stirring frequently. Once mixture boils, stir in butter until melted. Your mixture should be a nice gel like consistency at this point. Remove from heat.
  • Incorporate the lemon/cornstarch mixture with your egg yolks.:
    Begin by slowly adding 1 tablespoon at a time of hot lemon/cornstarch mixture to the yolks and whisk together. Continue adding mixture to the yolks until about 1/2 of the mixture is left in the pan.
  • Whisk egg yolk mixture back into the pan with remaining lemon/cornstarch mixture. Bring to a boil and stir constantly until thick. Remove from heat.

Prepare the meringue

  • Prepare the water/cornstarch mixture:
    In a small saucepan, combine water, 3 tablespoons of sugar and cornstarch. Cook over low heat until transparent, stirring constantly. Remove from heat.
  • Now for the egg whites.
    For this step you can use a kitchen mixer or large glass bowl and electric mixer.
    Beat egg whites, cream of tarter and salt until foamy. Add in vanilla, and gradually add in 1/2 cup sugar (1 spoonful at a time), beating constantly. Once soft peaks are formed, gradually pour in cornstarch mixture. Beat mixture until stiff peaks form.
    Note: Soft peaks barely hold their shape when lifted with a spoon. They will flop back over themselves. Stiff peaks will keep their shape and stand straight up when spoon is lifted.
    pread over top of pie and seal to the crust. Brown in oven if desired.

Pie Assembly

  • Warm the lemon filling again. Once warm, place into baked pie shell.
  • Working quickly, spread meringue evenly over top of pie using a rubber spatula. Be sure to seal the meringue to the crust, this helps to keep the meringue from shrinking towards the center of your pie.
  • Using the back of a spoon, create peaks all over the meringue. The meringue will be mile high full of peaks and valleys.
  • Place finished pie in preheated 325 degree oven for approximately 10 minutes. This step is to get your peaks golden brown. Watch them closely so they don't burn.
  • Allow pie to cool at room temperate for 1 hour. Store in the fridge.

Notes

Pie Crust:
Recipe coming soon...
Raw eggs and salmonella:
The dietitian in me has to make a salmonella disclaimer regarding the use of raw egg whites in this recipe.  Salmonella bacteria can be found in raw eggs.  According to the CDC, salmonella is destroyed when eggs are heated to an internal temperature of 160 degrees F or hotter.   The CDC recommends using pasteurized eggs for any foods that contain raw or lightly cooked eggs - this would include meringue.  Pasteurized egg whites are available in the egg section of your grocery store. 
I personally do not use pasteurized egg whites in this recipe.  However, if I was making this for someone who is immune compromised (this includes pregnant women and the elderly) I would go the pasteurized route.  
Soft versus Stiff Peaks:
If you need a quick tutorial on the difference between soft and stiff peaks, hop on over to Fine Cooking.  
 
Recipe adapted from: Simply Recipes and All Recipes 
 

Mulberry Jam

 

Mulberry Jam

Michelle Underwood
We were blessed to inherit well established mulberry trees on our property. Mulberries are sweet and delicious, and make a wonderful jam. If you have access to mulberries, take the time to gather them and make some homemade jam!

Ingredients
  

  • 2 pounds mulberries
  • 1 pound cane sugar
  • 1/2 of a lemon, juiced
  • 4-5 lemon seeds

Instructions
 

  • Gather 2 pounds of ripe mulberries, wash and remove stems. See notes below.
  • Place washed and trimmed berries in a food processor and process until well mixed and smooth (about 30 -45 seconds).
  • Place berries in a medium saucepan and bring to a boil. Boil for about 5 minutes and then add 1 pound of sugar and mix well, stirring frequently. Cook on low for about 25 minutes. The liquid should reduce by about 50% during this process.
  • Continue cooking the berries and add juice from 1/2 a lemon. Also add in about 5 lemon seeds. The seeds will help your jam to thicken without adding pectin. Cook for an additional 15 minutes.
  • Remove jam from heat and allow to cool. Store in Mason jars in the fridge. You can can it or freeze it if you would like. I chose to just share some and eat the rest.

Notes

To gather our mulberries, we placed a clean cloth under our tree and shook the branches.  The ripe mulberries fall to the ground.  We then gather up the cloth and pour them into a large bowl.  Once the berries are gathered, we lay them on cookie sheets and sort the leaves and stick out.  Rinse them well and wash with a low concentration white vinegar solution.  Be gentle... the really ripe ones mush easy.  To remove stems I used my kitchen shears and cut the tip with the stem off.
Everything I read about mulberries said to remove the stems before cooking.  This is very time consuming.  I removed the stems from 2/3's of the batch and left the stems on the remaining 1/3.  I couldn't notice the stems in my batch.  Next time I may leave half and see what happens.  Removing mulberry stems is a great time to put on an audio book, grab a glass of iced tea, and sit at your kitchen table and just enjoy the peaceful monotony.   
We serve ours on homemade bread with grass fed butter. 
I found the recipe for this jam at  https://ladyleeshome.com/how-to-make-mulberry-jam/